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Onatopp!

 

Hi there!

 

Bo had everything he wished in his life:
the perfect job offering him a high income, a couple
of houses and cars to enjoy, a beautiful wife
and a huge bank account.

But Bo was not a happy man, because he was
feeling his control over everything in his life
was very limited.

In his business, he was always trying to make
people work according to the way which would
be acceptable to him.
Obviously, the real world disregarded him, and
his wishes never took place.

When he returned home, he was always struggling
to control his wife’s plans and actions.
Again, to no avail.   She still acted her own ways.

I must change my attitude;   I need to understand
and learn to do my best, and believe that things
will come out all-right .
He said to himself one morning.
Since then his life has changed completely.

 

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Driver’s Seat

 

Control happens to all humans instinctively.
But our control and mastery over the majority
of things in life are actually very limited.

For example, your financial situation, your friends,
your family, your job, your health, ageing and dying;
are these all really under your full control?

Certainly not;   because most of these situations can
change very quickly at any time, and others will
come naturally any way.

Most people have a great number of things they
manage in their every day life.
But in reality, there are only very few things, you
can truly control.

Life is very complicated, but if you manage to learn
how to command these
very few things under your
control, not only your
life will improve immediately,
but you will become
a powerful and happy individual.

 

 

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Here are four important things that are actually
under your control:

a)     Focus

Prioritize your goals;   all the things that mean
most to you like, family, work, relationships.
Concentrate on making them work as best as
possible for you.

b)     Emotions

Realise that when other people or situations
upset you, this is happening only because you
personally have allowed them to do so.
Choose to keep your thoughts under control,
and you will feel much happier and in peace.

c)     Attitude

Stop being resentful and furious when something
goes wrong.
Instead give your utmost attention and improve
a difficult and demanding situation.

d)     Actions

Stop suffering and accept that you are not in
full control.
Stay committed to your targets, but do not be
attached to the results.
Do the best you can, but stay emotionally detached
because you cannot predict the outcome, and you
will feel angry if things do not come as you have
expected them to.

 

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Over And Above

 

There are also a few more basic things you can
actually control like,
your breathing, your self-talk and body language,
as well as your diet, exercise and sleep.

Never expect to have full control of everything;
because control is an illusion.

The clever thing to do is, to ignore everything
you can not control;
and  try to understand, learn
and handle well
the things you can.

Focus on your own existence.
Only then you will live your best life ever.

Believe in yourself.

 

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Kakahiaka!

 

Hi there!

 

It was a sunny morning so I decided to go for a walk.
I chose to go to my nearest
garden centre because
not only it is complete
with various plants but also
it has a fantastic
garden, where I enjoy walking for
as long
as I want.

While walking through the various plant stands I started
noticing the colourful reflections of
the sun light through
the trees and the many
flowers;
“what an amazing view”, I thought.
 

I kept on walking when my attention went to a small
flowering plant growing through
the cracks of a wall.
I bent down to touch
and smell;
“very sweet smell – it gives me
such a relaxing feeling!”, I thought.

Then I noticed how many insects were flying from flower to
flower buzzing and sucking
the sweet juices out of these
wonderful buds.

I kept on walking and suddenly I started realising that
I really was a part of all these
beautiful things happening
around me
at that moment.

It was then when I decided to just live in the moment.
I was only there — and
nothing else existed before or after.

I was totally absorbed…. !!

 

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C e r e m o n i a s

 

The morning is the infrastructure our whole day is built upon.
So it is absolutely
vital to adopt powerful habits to give not only our
day but also our life purpose.

Only by doing this we will feel happy, contented, peaceful, strong,
energetic
and really healthy.

 Adjust your mindset to the right direction and have an attitude
of acceptance
and anticipation.  Be prepared for good things to come.

 

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M o t i v o s

 

Try to incorporate the following rituals to your morning routines:

 

1)     Be Grateful

 

Every morning you wake up breathe, pray, feel fortunate
and count your blessings.
Feel grateful for all the things you have, including your health.
Feel grateful you are alive.
This will help you to appreciate life.

 

2)     Daily Purpose

 

Every morning have a complete plan of actions, which
will make you feel happy.
Be creative and do only what is right for you.

 

3)     Have Routines

 

Prioritize your obligations so you will always be relaxed
and in control.
Try to arrange your plans in a list from the night
before to be productive.

 

4)     Live Now

 

Every day is a new beginning.
Live today — and not yesterday or tomorrow, which are illusions.
There is only now.
Life is happening only now.

 

5)     Be Positive

 

Read, think and act in a positive way during the day,
so by the time you go
to bed at night you feel happy.
Change your attitude and expectations.
Being positive is a choice.

 

6)     Breakfast

 

Always eat a wholesome breakfast and include enough liquids
to keep your body
in good health.

 

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M a u    L o a

 

Make the choice to be happy.
You are the only one responsible for yourself.
It is within you.

Decide to be energetic, confident, strong and productive.
Accept yourself and other people, be creative and do
not take life
too seriously.

 

 

Audacia!

 

Hi there!

 

We belonged to the same health club.
Every evening we both went to the gym;
and although we never talked, we always made
eye contact which lasted
many seconds.

A good number of times our eyes locked for a
whole minute.
I really liked him but I was too nervous to
approach him.
 

This went on for sometime;   until one evening
we bumped into each other.
We only said “Hello”, smiled and he went on to the
treadmill to jog.
 

Although I was feeling so anxious, I decided to stand
up for myself.
I went over to him and started talking about fitness.

He responded immediately, so we went on talking.
We found that we were thinking similarly on the
subject of fitness.
 

“We must arrange to meet soon” I said.
“Definitely, we have so much
in common” he replied.
“How about next Saturday evening?”
I asked.  “It’s a date” he replied. 

My decision to gain self-confidence and make the first
step paid off.
Since then we are still together, and going strong.

 

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F i d u c i a


Self-confidence is the key to living
our best life.
Our success in every sector of our life depends on it.

It is extremely and absolutely important.
All it needs is determination, persistence and self-direction.

Being competent and respect yourself equals self-confidence.

 

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F u n d a m e n t a

 

Practice the following recommendations and you
will gain tremendous inner power.
 

1)    Identify the reasons you feel insecure and worried,
and minimise or correct them.
 

2)    Think positively and believe in yourself.
Live only in the present and be flexible, calm and relaxed.

3)    Acknowledge ten things you have achieved in your life
until now, and be pleased and
grateful.

4)    Force yourself out of your comfort zone.
Plan and set new goals and targets, and take the risks.

5)    Value and stand up for yourself.
Develop your interests and be natural.

6)    Associate with positive and happy people.
Give compliments and accept compliments.
Do not talk too much;   listen more and be in control.

7)    Pay attention to your posture, the way you dress
and your whole attitude, to inspire
confidence.

8)    Look after your physical fitness and walk with
energy and purpose at all times.

 

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Etat D’ Esprit

 

Self-confidence is a state of mind.
Unscramble your soul and transform your beliefs
with positive thoughts.
Only then you will create a strong personality.

 Good Luck!!