“ Change does not roll in on the wheels of inevitability,
but comes through continuous struggle.
And so we must straighten our backs and work for
A man can’t ride you unless your back is bent “.
Martin Luther King. Jr.
“ The weak can never forgive.
Forgiveness is the attitude of the strong “.
“ The depth and strength of a human character are
defined by its moral reserves.
People reveal themselves completely only when
they are thrown out of the customary conditions
of their life, for only then do they have to fall
back on their reserves “.
Leonardo Da Vinci
Nerves Of Steel
In these very unsettled and unstable times
we live, we do need to have a very strong mind
to be able to conquer all difficulties and
hurdles in our way.
To be a determined and courageous person
means being so resilient as to handle all life’s
challenges effectively, overcome them and
become more powerful.
Consequently, not only you will need to be
physically and mentally competent but also
to have the necessary reserves to allow you
to face these challenges and win.
A powerful individual needs to have the perfect
combination of intellect, determination,
flexibility, self-discipline, alertness, willpower
and finally guts.
All the above will help you defeat all barriers,
threats as well as various disappointments in
your life — and if you finally manage to cope
with all your problems as they happen, you
will really be a peaceful, pleased, fortunate
and outstanding human being.
Part And Parcel
Most people wish to be invincible in all aspects
of their life, either it is personal, professional
The following list of habits will help you become
really a strong human:
a) Stop worrying about what other people think
and say; always stay focused and seize opportunities
as they appear.
b) Be motivated, optimistic, confident, determined,
independent and believe in yourself; always do what
you want by taking calculated risks.
c) Be persistent and organised; focus on your goals
and plans, learn from your mistakes and work hard
until you succeed ignoring any setbacks.
d) Be fearless, courageous and tolerant when things
go wrong; be responsible for your own actions.
e) Relax and see things clearly and precisely; be in
control of your own mind so that you can forge
f) Keep on learning and educating yourself, because
knowledge is power; develop hobbies and be
observant and productive.
g) Exercise daily to improve your body and mind;
listen to motivational music.
h) Look after your physical and mental health;
adopt a healthful diet.
i) Take care of your appearance; dress smartly,
cut your hair, walk and sit tall and talk with confidence.
Life is full of challenges and we need to be
resilient in order to handle them effectively.
If you do not belong to the few people who
are born mentally tough you can learn to be.
* Never waste your time and energy feeling
sorry for yourself.
* Never allow anybody to make you feel bad
or hurt you.
* Never complain about situations and
* Never rely on others to make you happy
or be afraid to be alone.
* Never ever do anything you do not want
to do; just say No.
You need to deal with your problems one at
a time and without letting them affect you in
Also you need to balance your negative and
positive thoughts in such an efficient way as
not to become overly excited that you do not
control what you say and do, by using logic.
Take advantage of any obstacles and turn them
into progress and prosperity.
Change what you can control, accept what you
cannot and be grateful for what you have in
Eliminate everything that is futile and has no
meaning as well as anything unproductive and
Use your past experiences as a priceless
education, live only in the present moment so
you can see all things as they really are, and
create the best future for yourself.
Take love and give love!
Live with purpose!